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Archive for May, 2009

The Co-op Principle

I am a thinker. L, my partner, says that almost daily I have these brainstorms of how to convert ideas into viable businesses. I do some marketing and operations consulting with small businesses and always try to look at how to do the most with the smallest financial risk. If you do what everyone else [...]

Sunday, May 31st, 2009

Buttzville and Same Sex Marriage

As you no doubt know by now, the California Supreme Court decided to uphold Proposition 8, thus outlawing same sex marriage in the state that has a reputation for being one of the most liberal. Apparently just behind Massachusetts, Connecticut, Maine, Vermont and even Iowa. Here’s a cool tool to find out the status of [...]

Friday, May 29th, 2009

Obama and Axelrod - What’s the Hitch?

I can’t believe what I am seeing all across the queer cyberscape… Fellow gay men and women who are angry or insulted at the joke Obama made about he and Axelrod at the Correspondent’s Dinner on May 9th. Here it is the end of the month, and the outrage is still going strong…

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

Choosing a Bed…

I am trying to sell my huge California King bed. It’s a nice Mission Style frame and the mattresses when I purchased them cost and arm and a leg.

I was always a little leery of getting an “off size” bed, but truth be told, the company I finally found that had great mattresses for cheap had a special on the California Kings, so the rest is history. The sheets are hard to find and regular pillows look tiny just laying there. Comfortable, but a pain.

Monday, May 25th, 2009

COBRA Slower than the Ace of Spades…

So weeding through all of the extra paperwork after losing my J.O.B. and dealing with the piling up of medical bills from the ankle surgery has taken an awful lot of time and energy. I did discover a few things, however. Such as:

Sunday, May 24th, 2009

Natural Anatomy

A guy on eBay tried to sell his “vagina log”. Sadly, despite having many bidders, his reserve was set to high, so this fine piece of wood stayed in his possession. This means that he can continue to amaze his friends with his lack of experience with females.

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

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